Words have power. Ever imagined how several alphabets strung together can be so powerful? Yes, words are mighty. They can make or break, wound or heal, build or destroy, bring peace or cause war; words do the impossible. That’s why it is super essential for us to mind the things we say.
It is positive parenting when you stimulate your kids with the right words regularly. Of course, we know that kids need a lot of encouragement as they grow to feel accepted and love.
As a parent, you should be the first person to stimulate your kids with positive words. If you are thinking of how to praise your child with words or things to say to your child every day. Below are 50 positive things you should say to your child that you can draw inspiration from:
1. I Love You
In you, I found love in a new and different dimension. You changed my entirety, my being. I love you from the depths of my heart. My love for you is priceless. I can’t help but love you more. You make me cry, you make me smile, you make me feel complete. (I love you, it should be the first positive thing you should say to your child).
2. You Are Beautiful From Within And Out
From the very moment I set my eyes on you, I saw a part of me that is complete and beautiful inside and out. Your pure heart radiates beauty from within. I see great beauty in your tender eyes like mine and your smile. Great incomparable beauty, that’s what you have.
3. You Are A Rare Gem
y child, don’t you know that you are one of a kind, a special breed? You have qualities incomparable to others. All you need do is tap into this great potentials and see how great he will shine like the star you are.
4. You Have Taught Me A Lot, And I Am Still Learning
Your birth came with a lot of lessons, vital lessons. I would never have understood life in a new dimension. If you had not come my way, I would never have seen the new meaning of life. I would not have learned to love better. Well, you taught me so much patience. You taught me discipline. You taught me strength and hope for all this I say thank you, my child.
5. I Believe In You
Even if no other person does trust and believe you, I do. Even if it seems you don’t get things right, I believe in you. My child, even when you make mistakes. I do believe in you because I know that greatness lies within.
You are the best of the best—a shining star. (Let your kid see that you believe in him and show it by words and action). One great and positive thing you can say to your child every day is that I believe in you.
6. You Make My Life Complete
I don’t think my life would have been the same if I had not had you. You make my life complete, and I thank the universe for bringing this good gift to me every day.
7. Believe In Yourself
You can do it. You can do great things. You can do wonders only if you believe that you can do it. I believe in you. So believe in yourself even when people try to make it seem as if you can’t be great. You can. It is an encouraging note to your child.
8. You Make Me Proud
I know you would make me proud because in you lies the potential and capacity for greatness. I do not doubt that I have a child who will put a smile on my face and make me proud.
9. I understand
I know that growing up can be complicated and challenging for you, child. I understand. I will do my best to make it easier for you.
10. You Are A Great Help To Me
A nice thing to say to your grown daughter is: Thank you for always being helpful. I cherish everything you do for me, always responding when I need you for helping in your little way.
11. Your Birth Came With A Lot Of Blessings
More than I can even imagine. It opened those with a lot of opportunities I have been waiting for.
12. You Are Wise Beyond Your Age
Your insights into things amaze me, wise beyond your age. I do not doubt that you will be able to scale through life more easily. Kudos.
13. Your voice matters greatly. Never feel your opinions are not as important as others. They count. You should speak up and say your mind anytime you want to because of your views. What truly matters to me your family and everyone around.
14. Great Thinker
I love the way your mind works. Your imaginations run so wild. My little champ will grow up to be a great man and an inventor of great things in his time.
15. When I Look At You, My Heart Melts. And It Makes Me Love You More.
16. You Are The Best
You are my best. I love you, endlessly.
17. A Treasure You Are To The World
One that the world will seek after. Just give yourself time. You will be well known for greatness.
18. You Have A Kind Heart
It’s so pure and true.
19. You Have Made Great Efforts
Well done. I love your dedication. With this spirit, I see you taking charge of your world.
20. Your Little Efforts Count
One baby steps here, another there. Soon you’ll be celebrating outstanding achievements.
21. I am thankful that you chose me as your parent cause my life would not have been complete; it wouldn’t have had this new meaning without you.
22. Each Day I See You, I See The Little Child I Nurtured
Now you are growing up going to be a fine young woman—a strong one as that. (Nice thing to say to your grown daughter).
23. Be Yourself
You are one of a kind, so do not always make your life be about people. You do not have to rely on people to do things for you or popular opinion. You are unique, so be yourself.
24. Focus On The Good Over The Bad
When you face life challenges, no point dwelling on the things you cannot change. Instead of focusing on the betrayal, the hurts, the mistakes. Focus on the good, on your achievements, and the opportunities you have got. It makes things easier.
25. Stay Positive
It would be best if you always had a positive mindset about things. No matter what challenges you are facing or the situations at hand, be positive. That is the first step to finding a way out.
26. Try Again
Always know this, my child. It can be scary and challenging when you have to rise after the failure, but in everything, stand up and try again no matter what. Dwelling in the loss, staying in the mistakes won’t get you anywhere. What matters most is to learn from the mistakes.
27. Every Day Is A Chance To Make A Difference
Today is a new day, and a new chapter has opened. You can choose to dwell on yesterday’s issues or desire to make a difference.
Today, take the chance to make a difference to do something, put smiles on people’s faces to lend in helping hand to make me happy, and, more importantly, make yourself happy.
28. It Is Okay To Feel Bad Sometimes
I know that feeling when you don’t understand why you feel so bad, and you can’t help yourself feel so low and sad. It is okay. You don’t have to fight hard against it.
You don’t have to struggle hard with yourself. Just allow yourself. Let it hit if you. If you have to cry, cry, scream or shout, do so, and be free and be better again. Because It is okay to feel bad sometimes, but picking up after the bad is what matters in the long run.
29. Everyone May Not Like You
And you may not want everyone, and this is totally fine, you don’t have to fit with everybody anyway, so do not bother when you seem to crave the friendship of the most popular guy in school or when people choose not to be friends with you. It only means one thing that it is not meant to be. Instead, find someone who truly loves and cherish you for who you are.
30. Your Siblings Look Up To You
They see you as one who they can rely on. You can guide them towards the right path. They see you as a great model for them. One they can follow, one who they can teach them, one who can defend him, one who will not disappoint them. I believe so much in you, and I know you are a big brother to them.
31. You Don’t Have To Be Perfect All The Time
Mistakes and errors are not necessarily bad all the time, so do not be such a perfectionist that you end up concentrating too much on those things that do not count.
32. Learn From Your Mistakes
Mistakes are not only about feeling bad or feeling sad. It would be best if you learned from the mistakes. Do not let the sadness of the mistakes overwhelm you.
33. Goal-Getter You Are
You are an achiever a goal-getter. Whatever you aim to do, you can achieve it. Trust me. Just give it your best shot and see yourself flying.
34. Always Try Your Very Best
To stand out like an eagle, you need to do your best in everything. It’s your best that will make you stand tall among your equals.
That would give you the required recognition. Never settle for less; accept mediocrity. Always strive to be the best of the best cause that is who you are.
35. Time Is Precious
Time is gold, and time is diamond. Time is a special thing to use at your disposal. Time will never wait for you. The best value you get out of time is when you use it wisely.
So my child, do not spend your life on those things that are meaningless. Those things that are not helping to build you and make you. Cause as the clock ticks, so your life, and as they say, time waits for no man.
36. Treat Everyone With Respect
Respect is reciprocal respect is earned. Always give people the respect they deserve. The rich, the poor, the old, the young treat everyone with respect. Know that everyone has value, so do not be too proud and look down on people.
37. Choose Your Words Wisely
Words are powerful. Be very careful about what you say and how you say it because people may use it against you.
38. Find happiness from within. The best form of joy you can get it from within. So in whatever you do, do not sacrifice your happiness for anything.
39. Be Observant
Do not get carried away, and forget all around you. Always be alert of everything around.
40. Be Honest
There may be times when you try to lie to hide your mistakes. But, it achieves no good. Always be honest, first to yourself and then to others.
41. It is good to listen when people are talking; you learn vital pieces of information this way.
42. Take Pride In Yourself
Nobody can be proud of you more than yourself. Make it a point to do something you are proud of every day.
43. It is okay not to have the same idea as everyone. Remember, you are unique.
44. Good bad, everything happens for a reason.
45. I believe you can do it. Whatever you set to do is achievable. Because I think You can do it.
46. You Make The World A Better Place
No doubt, you are going to make significant changes in your world.
47. I Cherish Every Moment Spent With You
My child. I wish it were forever, but I know it’s impossible.
48. You make my world more colorful and fun with your smile and laughter, with your tiny feet and your dance steps.
49. I Am Proud To Be Called Your Parents
Because you always make me proud and happy.
50. I Love You, Again And Again
I can never stop loving you. (This is one positive thing you should say to your child, that you will never stop saying even when he or she is grown.)
Save this for later mama!
